This morning, as I was innocently filling my gigantic mug with hot water for my morning English Breakfast tea, I was approached by a fellow office dweller. In the past, I have had maybe 2 or 3 short conversations in the break room with this guy. Nothing in-depth, just general friendly chit-chat.
I could tell immediately by his demeanor that he was disturbed/upset/angry or otherwise not feeling very chipper. However, I was cornered and therefore unable to escape before he began to verbalize his thoughts. The next several minutes proved to be some of the most uncomfortable I have had in quite some time.
I listened quietly as he berated me about my political beliefs. I continued to smile and nod as he called me names such as "elitist" and "thief". Those of you who know me know that I'm generally private about politics and religion. Unlike many, I do not use social media as a platform to advertise or sway others to my views. I have no idea how this guy even knew who I voted for for President.
After approximately 10 minutes, I politely told him that anger and hate are heavy burdens to be carrying around and that I feel we should all respect our fellow Americans and their views - even when they differ from ours. That's when he grunted and stormed off.
I was left speechless - clutching my cooling beverage - for a moment unable to comprehend what had just happened. Maybe that guy was having a bad morning. Maybe he does not have anyone he can talk to about his feelings. He clearly could benefit from some yoga. I'm not defending him, but I do feel sorry for him. Next time I see him in the break room or in the hall, I'm going to smile and wish him a good day :)
